Dealing with the loss of my partner

Hi @peachyos

How are you doing?

I am sorry to hear about your partner. It is always hard to lose someone we love, especially one that you have care for for a lifetime. I'm sure there are Carenity members who have experienced something similar. Let me tag a few members to see if they can offer any advice.

@love44 @TyraJ. @shamianirie @Val0905 @misand @emilylflores @Aprilpresnell @SierraLS9 @Vodkafly @Mammabear85 @andrewbabb1992 @Jlmag! @babygirl6640 @Marmateo @Priceless1991 @Cadenbriggs @meme22 @Dnquintela @BlackWolfBang @pkw081803 @nwilliams11387 @zachlovescaroline216 @IreeJay @Kenna11 @Maryam.91 @Kari03 @EveBrannon @Cyyber @Mooremg @CaityMT @Melaniejean @Northern90 @AnneJacques

Have you lost a loved one that you cared for? How did you handle your transition from carer to only caring for yourself?

Take care,
Lizzi from the Carenity team

Hi @peachyos. Am really very sorry for your special loss of partner!! I've never lost a significant other, but have lost both folks. It hurts SO bad!!!! I didn't have pleasure of caring for them, but feel their absence daily. Grieving takes Long time!! Take long as u need. There's no timeline.

Would grief support group help? I was in a couple ones, some more helpful than others. Depending where u live, reach out to see what's available. I wish u all the best.

I am deeply sorry for the tragic loss of your partner. Although I have lost both parents, I have never lost a spouse. I am in excruciating pain. I miss them every day, even though I didn't enjoy taking care of them. Bereavement is a lengthy process! Go at your own pace. I don't have a schedule.

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