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Abb123

08/07/2022 at 6:11 AM

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Years of constant arguments, years of no peace, Years of lying to myself, years of trying to make anything better and only achieving falling into a deep rabbit hole and I can't find the exit, but I just have to say it, I hate, I despise my parents with all my soul and heart but the only option I have is to leave, while saying it sounds easy it's anything but easy, you see the region I currently live in, basic small apartments are way to expensive I can't afford anything I've searched for any nearby locations and almost all of the apartments are almost reaching 3k a month it's ridiculous I don't make that much to be sustainable, sure I could work overtime but I would literally be hurting myself in the process doing so, i easily get drained and on top of that I have a serious problem with my feet that make basic walking to painful some days the pain is so bad I want to cut my own feet off, I could go to college but there's nothing I'm passionate in, and I probably be waisting my time anyways since I've never belonged in school I've had alot of trauma from school and the thought of having to redo all of it after 12 years makes me sick. I have no options I'm stuck I need someone who will reliable tell me what the hell do I do, I can't stand being with my parents I can't stand living the way I am, I'm miserable I want a way out one way or another please just anybody tell me something.

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LizziB

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08/08/2022 at 11:13 PM

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Hi @Abb123

It sounds like you are in a tough situation. Housing does seem to be at a high right now. Here is some advice I would tell a friend: Have you thought about finding a place to share with a friend or roommate? Or perhaps move in with a different family member. If you need an immediate place to go, airbnb could be a cheaper option, but it might be more of a temporary solution.

I think college could be an idea, you are a different person now, so maybe you would have a new and different experience. I wouldn't write it off right away. I think often times when we are in a rush to make moves we can see only reasons why it won't work.

Maybe it could be good to talk this through with a professional - mentors, life coaches, and therapists can help with personal projects as well as give strategies on getting along with family members etc. Plus. they take time to get to know you and really help craft solutions that meet your needs.

Take care,

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10/19/2022 at 12:51 AM

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Hi I hope things got better for you.

What did you end up doing anyway?

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10/28/2022 at 10:57 AM

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I hope things get better for you.

Please someone tell me wtf do I do https://www.carenity.us/forum/depression/living-with-depression/please-someone-tell-me-wtf-do-i-do-4685 2022-10-28 10:57:13

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