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What if I never get married?
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Reptilemamma
Reptilemamma
Last activity on 05/26/2021 at 10:59 PM
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I've had a strong desire for marriage ever since I was a teen. It's really been heavy on me for the past 10 years to get married. I turn 40, and the dating pool is getting quite shallow, and in desperate need of some chlorine.
What bothers me is the fact that I have absolutely NO control of it. Getting married relies completely on fate. It's not a goal I can earn.
I want a better job? Go to school and get the relevant education. Want a house or better car? Save up $. There's no game plan to make marriage happen.
No one seems interested in me except for a few that are absolute terrible matches for me. What if that's the best, or only offer of marriage I'll ever get?