How to overcome a toxic relationship?

Hello @Selenaadolphi‍, thank you for opening this discussion and sharing what you've been going through with your partner. The National Domestic Violence Hotline has a lot of helpful resources if you'd like to learn more about relationship abuse and have a confidential, 24/7 helpline if you ever feel unsafe. Let me tag some other members who can possibly share with you.

Hi everyone, how are you today?  

Have you ever had difficulty in your relationships because of your or your partner's depression? Have you ever dealt with abuse in a relationship? How did you get through it? Do you have any advice for Selenaadolphi?
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Feel free to share any experiences or advice here, we're all here to support one another!

Take care,
Courtney

So I am a 19yr old and I have 2 children with my ex. We have been together on and off for almost 5 years. We just recently broke up about 2 months ago, and I’m still in love with him, and I’m just afraid he’s already moved on. I’ve been getting messages from multiple different people that my best friend and him are together and that they’re flirting. I asked them both about it and they got super defensive with me and started being rude about it. They both told me that nothing was going on, and that they were only just friends but she’s been going over to his house almost every single day…I just don’t know what I should do or believe because this wouldn’t be the first time my ex has tried to get with one of my friends, or the first time my friends have tried to get with him. 

Ok I have relationship problems bad. Like on the verge of hurting one another badly and parting ways, but I know I can save it I just don't know how

Hi @Mattboy90, thank you for sharing with us. I've moved your comment to this thread about toxic relationships. Depression can really take a toll and make it hard to maintain healthy relationships. I'm sorry to hear you both are suffering. Can you tell us a little bit more (if you feel comfortable) so that maybe others can share some advice?

Has anyone else had a hard time in your relationships because of depression? How did you get through it? Can you share any advice with Mattboy90?

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Take care,

Courtney