Stonewalling in a relationship: How to deal with it?

Leave. Seriously. He won’t change. It’s a broken record for you too I bet. Fine for a while. Then out of the blue questioning and not believing. On and on. And on. 
he doesn’t want outside advice because he likes to be the one in control. Walk away. If it hasn’t gotten physical yet it might. If it has already then you have your answer. Leave. 

Yes it's a broken record, no he won't ever hit me. Sometimes they are different questions, but he keeps trying to find me in a lie when there isn't one. And he doesn't believe my story because "it's always the same answer". Anyways, I beat him at the game until he was disgusted with asking me the same ones. It's other things he rags me on and I beat him at that game too but he keeps ragging me about it. 

Get out they will never change. I'm engaged and don't feel like I can leave. I don't deserve anything better. It's a long story and I'm afraid to type anything on these sites incase someone sees it that knows me. But that's just me being paranoid I have No one to talk to no friends where I live I go to work part time and come home. 

If you have talked to him about the situation and he still keeps digging for what he thinks is the truth it’s a never ending battle. I have been on both ends with my wife I have done the digging and so has she. In the end we talked it all out and that’s all you can do. So if you are talking and he refuses to listen I would say leave the situation. 

I tried to ask him to drop it but he refuses it. And he makes stuff up too. Then he tries to use film and says police use film all the time and I'm so fed up with the situation that it is driving me crazy to tears. We had a final talk about it yesterday and if he refuses to drop it after that I'll have no choice but to leave because I'm emotionally exhausted.  

Hello everyone; I joined because I’ve discovered my boyfriend has been texting women inappropriately and had an affair involving three people. I feel really violated because we were still intimate and he never told me. It was months ago and i threw up and cried and I just wanted to stop feeling anything , I really need support