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Does anyone struggle with female practitioners not respecting a man during examination and treatment?

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08/14/2019 at 1:21 AM

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H‍ello members - I am posting this on behalf of @Perrie123‍, who expressed the following below. Please share or comment if you have any advice or experience/opinions to share.

"Is it possible for a man to have a private male examination without having a female seize control of his genitals and abuse him as she wishes? Are there no male urologists and oncologists who treat men in a professional manner? I have not found a single physician in the Baltimore/Washington area who can give me an examination or treatment without turning my genitals over to his female accomplice to abuse me as she wishes. They even require females in pairs to undress us, female medical operators of the devices used in the medical procedure, females to discuss care of our male genitals and issues, and even allow non-medical female personnel such as receptionists, to enter the examination and treatment area. I now use only dietary, herbal and non-traditional medical treatment of my aggressive prostate cancer. I shall never submit to another female dominatrix exercise."

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08/30/2019 at 4:24 AM

@Perrie123 Wow. I am so sorry for all the poor treatment and experiences you have gone through. You are right that men should be treated with the sensitivity, especially when it is dealing with our most sensitive parts.

I wish I knew of doctors in that part of the country who could assist you with decency. I wish you the best in finding a doctor and assistants who can do so.

Does anyone struggle with female practitioners not respecting a man during examination and treatment? https://www.carenity.us/forum/prostate-cancer/living-with-prostate-cancer/does-anyone-struggle-with-female-practitioners-1211 2019-08-30 04:24:22

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09/04/2019 at 6:38 AM

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I would rather have no treatment and die rather than have my body abused by females.

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09/26/2019 at 4:23 AM

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I have decided that I need no medical treatment rather than have my genitals turned over to females to abuse me as they wish. Why can men not receive private male examinations with respect for our dignity, privacy and safety? I have saved all drugs to use to avoid any abuse from females. I shall gladly die rather than have another female abuse me.

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09/26/2019 at 4:33 AM

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It appalls me that men cannot get private professional medical treatment. Why must we have our genitals turned over to a female to abuse us as she wishes while the other females gawk at their "sister" abusing and torturing us?

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09/26/2019 at 4:42 AM

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Maybe the day will come when men can have private examinations with respect for our dignity, privacy and safety. Why do these filthy male doctors allow themselves to be accomplices to their female skanks to abuse black men?

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10/02/2019 at 7:47 AM

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I hate females who abuse me. Is there no way for a man to get a private examination?

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10/15/2019 at 3:09 AM

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It is totally disgusting that men can not have private examinations and treatment for male problems. Why do men have to have women seize control of our genitals and abuse us as they wish.? Keep your white females away from my genitals.

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10/21/2019 at 9:11 PM

You have the wrong doctor, I have been going to my doctor for prostate cancer for 3 years, never have had a female nurse in the exam room etc. I had wonderful care in the wound center at Lankenau Hospital and the hyperbaric chamber with wonderful professional nurses.

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10/28/2019 at 6:19 AM

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I have never been offered a private male examination. The last time I tried to have a private male examination, I was told, "No men work here." Every time I seek medical attention my genitals are handed over to a female to abuse me as she wishes. I shall die before I have another female abuse me.

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11/08/2019 at 2:49 AM

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Finally I have found a way to get a professional examination with respect for my dignity, privacy and safety. A woman friend introduced to another male friend who told me of the wonderful examination he received from a female doctor and her female medical assistant. They treated me with complete respect unlike the male doctors who turn my genitals over to their female accomplices to abuse men. I was completely comfortable with both of them. I am so happy that I shall continue to post my satisfaction, This doctor also made it clear that I had the right to make decisions about my body and treatment I would receive. As this progresses I shall post comments on this wonderful turn of events to have a professional male examination. My new doctor is an oncologist and made it clear that I have control of my body and nothing would be done to me without my express permission. I was happy that no urologist would abuse me. She even offered me an alternative to the fiduciales to be inserted into my genitals by a female under the auspices of a male misandristic sadist to abuse me. I am so happy for the first time since I was diagnosed with an aggressive prostate cancer.

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03/21/2019 at 1:00 AM

I made the decision to have my proste removed and it was not an easy time... just as hard as finding out you had prostate cancer... I was advised by my doctors the surgery was the best option because of my age and the harmful affects of radiation longterm. For me, once I made the decision, I did have the peace of mind knowing that the actual cancer was "removed" instead of just treated... which, I guess, did give me some sense of comfort.

The biggest issue for me once the surgery was done and I was on the road to recovering was the effects it had on me emotionally/psychologically, which many people in my opinion overlook. I encourage anyone and everyone, when diagnosed with prostate cancer, before and after treatment and during, to seek psychological help... there is nothing wrong with it. Medications, counseling, and just talking about your feelings can help tremendously. Do not hold it all in and try to battle the anxiety and depression because this diagnosis will affect you, no matter how strong you may consider yourself to be.

The sexual effects treatment has on you will also affect you mentally, because your sexual ability and ability to have kids will likely be affected. Your performance ability can be likely fixed, but it can still affect you mentaly. Take care of yourself.

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