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dougva
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I had my prostate removed in Jan. My PSA is reading 9 so i begin radiation this week. I haven't had an erection since removal. And now w the injections of Firmagon and Lupron have lost all desire. I'm 63 and the thought of this being a permanent situation is very depressing.
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@dougva How are you doing? How did your radiation go?
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Been awhile Jon. Just found out my PSA is going up again. But I’m done taking Lupron.
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I'm 58 and just diagnosed with stage 2, 3+4=7 prostate cancer. I've been given so much information about treatments, it's overwhelming. I'm not sure which way to go. Surgery scares me because of the initial catheter for 1-2 weeks and possible incontinence and erectile issues. But they say that it can get better over time and might only be for the first 12 months or so. With radiation there might not be the incontinence or erectile issue initially but possibly down the road. But there is also the possibility of bowel issues. I guess I'm looking to see how others have faired after radiation or surgery. it's such a difficult decision to make.
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Hey everyone,
I wanted to revive this interesting conversation to know your thoughts! 😊
For those who've had prostate cancer treatment, did you choose radiation or surgery? How did it affect your life afterward?
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I made the decision to have my proste removed and it was not an easy time... just as hard as finding out you had prostate cancer... I was advised by my doctors the surgery was the best option because of my age and the harmful affects of radiation longterm. For me, once I made the decision, I did have the peace of mind knowing that the actual cancer was "removed" instead of just treated... which, I guess, did give me some sense of comfort.
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I made the decision to have my proste removed and it was not an easy time... just as hard as finding out you had prostate cancer... I was advised by my doctors the surgery was the best option because of my age and the harmful affects of radiation longterm. For me, once I made the decision, I did have the peace of mind knowing that the actual cancer was "removed" instead of just treated... which, I guess, did give me some sense of comfort.
The biggest issue for me once the surgery was done and I was on the road to recovering was the effects it had on me emotionally/psychologically, which many people in my opinion overlook. I encourage anyone and everyone, when diagnosed with prostate cancer, before and after treatment and during, to seek psychological help... there is nothing wrong with it. Medications, counseling, and just talking about your feelings can help tremendously. Do not hold it all in and try to battle the anxiety and depression because this diagnosis will affect you, no matter how strong you may consider yourself to be.
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Ronald
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I was just diagnosed with prostate cancer and given 2 treatment options...8 weeks of radiation or surgery... I’m 63yo and have a very active lifestyle (if you get the hint 😉)...what I’m trying to get a feel for is life after cancer treatments....Anybody???